Ever thought that something wasn’t quite right in your life? Did you struggle with being the wrong shaped peg in an equally wrong shaped hole? I did! And this is my story, the story of someone who went through life for too long trying to push things aside in favour of living life in accordance with the expectations of others. More importantly it shows how I took control and made the changes I needed to in order to become the best version of myself. This is not a story of the conventional normal , but what it means to make your differences into your own normal . I invite you to share in my story and hopefully find points in it that you can relate to or even use to help you in your own decisions.