Kathryn Lackey found-and married-her officer and a gentleman. They built a beautiful life and family until, slowly, this man began to change. After twenty years of marriage, she knew something was wrong. She remained blind to the depths of his darkness until the day when his secret life became publicly exposed.

As the details of his sexual addiction unraveled, Kathyn watched her world suddenly shatter as he faced indictment. She vulnerably shares the events that unfolded along with emotion-filled letters written-but never mailed-to the man who crushed her dreams and destroyed their family. Amid the pain, she found the strength to survive and keep her family safe as he funneled deeper into addiction and his ultimate incarceration. She now shares her journey of faith to help other women find healing, personal strength, and a new self beyond a partner’s shame. Who will you discover on your journey?